I’m really glad you’re here. Like, really truly glad.

Because it means you know you're about to make a big decision — and you're taking it seriously. That makes you exactly the person I'm here to serve.

I know this decision you’re thinking about is a biggie because I made it myself. 

For more than a dozen years, I’ve lived in a 4-generation household.
I live with my husband and our four kids, my parents, and my grandma was here with us in her final years. 

Now I’m bringing my real-life experience of joys + challenges to help you and your family decide if multi-gen living is right for you. 

The clarity and sense of relief that comes with finding your answer — that’s where I’m leading you. 

It’s taken me over 12 years to gather up this knowledge and expertise. And as a writer and teacher, I can’t resist sharing it with you.

That’s why I created this mini course: to help you make this big decision with confidence.

So many families are unprepared when they start multi-gen living.

They decide to jump into it without figuring out if it’s truly right for their family.

In Before You Say Yes, you’ll not only work through the Essential Questions, you’ll also get the support to know what to do with your answers.

I’m not guiding you toward yes.

I’m  not leading you toward no. 

I’m walking you down the path that will give you the clarity to know exactly what’s right for you. 

✺

If you…

→ just keep circling the idea of multi-gen living, thinking and talking (and thinking some more), unsure if you want to move forward… 

→ are biting your fingernails worrying you’ll regret whatever decision you make
(whether it’s a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’)…

→ have had multi-gen conversations with your family that have been awkward or stressful
(or non-existent)…

→ don’t want to figure this out alone…

… I created Before You Say Yes
exactly for you.

Here’s what’s in store for you: 

→ Huge emotional relief
Exhale. Like, really exhale.

→ A complex decision becomes manageable
No more swirling thoughts, your mind jumping from Point A to Point Z
(without even knowing what steps B through Y look like!)

→ Confidence in your family’s decision about multi-gen living — whatever it turns out to be
By the end of this, if moving forward is right, you’ll know.
And if it’s not right…you’ll feel it in your gut.
Either way, you’ll be out of the spiral of uncertainty.

✺ It’s simple and makes this decision feel so much more manageable.

✺ It’s warm and supportive…no matter the answer you land on.

✺ Going through the mini course doesn’t mean you’re going to move in together, just that you want to decide whether or not it’s right for you.

✺ It’s so much easier to have someone with an outside perspective share what you need to talk about, instead of the awkwardness of telling your family, “I’m worried about [insert biggest fear here] so I think we better talk about it.”

✺ This big thing that’s been looming over your head and weighing on you can get sorted out. I promise. 

✺ You’ll come out feeling clear and confident.

✺ I’m here to help you understand the decision making process. Home layouts, design plans, and caregiving tips might be what you need down the road, but they aren’t helpful while you’re still on the fence about living together in the first place

YOU: I’m crazy busy and I don’t really have time for this.
ME: Totally! I made the lessons super short for you. You can binge them all in less than 45 minutes. Family chats can happen however works best for your schedule.
And…hear me out — I think the thing you actually don’t have time for is putting off this decision.

YOU: My partner’s not excited about this idea.
ME: I get it. Make sure they know this isn’t a “how to live together” thing. It’s a “we’re deciding IF we’re going to live together” thing. Everyone’s input is important.

YOU: Ugh. This whole topic is overwhelming me.
ME: If multi-gen living is a real consideration for your family, I promise you: you’ll never regret having these conversations now. If you decide to move forward, these are gonna matter so much.
If you decide it’s not right for you, you’re saving yourself SO much stress and hassle and heartache. I’ve seen families take shortcuts and it doesn’t turn out well. I don’t want that for you.