Before You Say Yes
The 9 essential questions
every family needs to answer
before saying yes to
multi-generational living
Before You Say Yes
The 9 essential questions
every family needs to answer
before saying yes to
multi-generational living
You’re exploring
the idea of
multi-generational living.
You want to feel truly confident in
your choice to live with your extended family.
It’s time for you to answer the question:
Should we really live together?!
You love the idea
of a joyful, thriving
multi-generational
household.
Mutual support
Family connection
Pooled resources
Shared daily life
Creating a multi-gen home can be a blessing to everyone involved.
And…it’s a huge decision.
How do you know if it’s right for you and your family?
Cross your fingers and pray you won’t regret it?
Wing it and hope for the best?
Nope. This matters too much.
You need to decide with confidence & clarity.
Move from:
Questioning → Confident
Uncertain → Aligned
Curious → Clear
Before You Say Yes
This guided conversation framework
walks you through
the 9 essential questions
you and your family need to talk about before you move forward with
multi-generational living.
Laying the foundation for a rewarding & thriving
multi-gen home life doesn’t start when you move in together.
It starts now.
Before anyone buys or sells a house, before anyone fills a packing box.
It starts with getting curious and being honest.
It starts with opening up a conversation.
It starts with these 9 essential questions.
Inside
Before You Say Yes
You’ll Get:
bite-sized video lessons to watch/listen to on your own or with your family
a walk-thru of the 9 essential questions you need to discuss to make a well-informed decision about whether multi-gen living is right for your family
printable, journal-style versions of all the questions for easy reflection and conversations
a graphic organizer to use to create your family’s WHY
(think: vision statement)expert guidance, tools, and resources from someone who has walked this path and created a healthy & happy multi-gen home for more than a dozen years
I’m Molly, your Multi-Gen Living Mentor.
With more than 12 years of experience
living in a (happy & functional!)
4-generation household,
I’m going to help you prepare for a
rewarding multi-gen home life.
The guidance I’m sharing here, the framework I’m offering you — it’s based on everything I’ve learned about how to create a multi-gen
household full of joy and ease, not stress and regret.
I didn’t have a mentor to turn to, a guide to consult, or a framework to help me through the decision-making stage.
It was slow, confusing, sometimes stressful and a bit nerve-wracking.
But Now? It’s one of my life’s biggest gifts.
Multi-generational living can be such a beautiful lifestyle, and I want to help you navigate this decision with confidence.
“Molly - thank you so much for helping us walk through the process of multigenerational living! It was so helpful to be able to process potential obstacles, setting healthy boundaries and what an incredible thing it can be if it’s planned out well!”
— Brett
“Your course made me feel confident in having transparent conversations about sharing financial responsibilities and the role that my parents would be playing in our children’s lives by living together.”
— Sarah
You’re in good company.
In the U.S. in 2024,
nearly 1 in 5 homes sold
went to multi-gen families.
The questions you’re asking? The dreams you’re dreaming?
SO many other families are too.
Imagine…
moving forward with confidence and clarity,
building on a firm foundation,
aligned with your family
& ready to step into your new future together.
Before You Say Yes is for you because:
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Before You Say Yes is high-impact and efficient: valuable, to-the-point, and actionable. I recorded the lessons to be binge-able – easy to watch all at once in about an hour – or convenient to split up into a several short sessions.
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You wouldn’t decide to start a business with someone without talking through alllll the ins and outs. You wouldn’t buy a house with someone unless you were really clear on joint ownership expectations. You wouldn’t marry someone if you weren’t sure what they wanted their life to look like long-term.
After living in a 4-generation household for more than 12 years, I can tell you the decision to live multi-generationally is just as life-changing.
I promise you will never regret being sure before you take the next step.
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I want to be super clear: we’re moving from A to B here. This is where you have to begin to build a strong foundation.
I’m not teaching you about building permits, giving remodel tips, or sharing resources about caring for aging parents — that all comes later.
I’m walking you through the 9 essential questions that will let you answer confidently: Should we really live together?!
The alternative?
…Just hope it all turns out OK.
…Make a huge lifestyle shift and see what happens.
…Rely on assumptions and old family roles to predict how your multi-gen household will work.
But let me tell you: that’s not the way!
You can make this decision with confidence and clarity — I’ll help.
What’s possible for your family if you decide multi-gen living is right for you?
You’re just a few conversations away from finding out.
(Spoiler! It might look something like this: you build a joyful multi-generational home on a foundation of mutual trust, a shared vision for the future & a whole lot of love.)
Before You Say Yes
bite-sized video lessons to watch/listen to on your own or with your family – including guided frameworks for the 9 essential questions your family needs to answer before deciding if multi-gen living is right for you
(a $297 value)
printable, journal-style versions of all the questions for easy reflection and conversation
(a $47 value)printable graphic organizer to use to create your family’s WHY (think: vision statement)
(a $67 value)
…all from someone who has walked this path and created a healthy & happy multi-gen home for more than a dozen years
More than $410 of tools and expert guidance to make a clear, confident choice about multi-gen living…
Available today for just $33
FAQs
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Yes. When you purchase this mini course, you’ll get a link to access everything it includes. You can share the username/password with the family you’re considering living with.
Out of respect for my time, efforts, and business, please do not share access with others. -
This mini course is for both!
Whether your family will live under the same roof or have separate homes on a joint property, this will help you make a confident decision about moving forward with multi-gen living.
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This is a classic ‘you get out of it what you put into it’ scenario. I’ve done my very best to put together high-value, high-impact, efficient resources for you.
After the hour or so you spend watching the video lessons, you’ll be equipped with everything you need to apply it all to your family. The amount of time you all spend on personal reflection and group discussion is up to you and dependent on your unique family dynamics.
My part is concise! But, because this preparation is important, I strongly encourage you not to rush your conversation. -
If you already live together, I have a different resource that would be a better fit.
Click here to check out Live With Your Family Without Losing your Mind, the course I created for families who have already decided to live together…or who already do!
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